Post Christmas Dating Update

Christmas has been and gone; the mess cleaned up, wrapping papers and cards in the recycle bin; and now it is time for relaxing and enjoying the holidays. New Year's Eve is just around the corner and then 2009 will be on us with a bang.

So how are things on my dating front??

Well an update on B3 is definitely needed. As you know I was very attracted to B3 and he is overseas until early Jan and has been flooded my email box and IM with messages. His messages have taken a slightly concerning tone and I am 99.99% sure that the B no longer stands for Bachelor but something along the lines of Bi. Now I have no problems with anyone's sexual preferences but I am not about to get into a relationship with someone who, shall we say, considers both ends of the dating spectrum. So on that note I sent off an email explaining that I would not be pursuing the relationship and my reasons.

Was very amused by a pair of contacts over the break - 23 year old from interstate sent a request along with his pics - one of which showed him with a mate. I refused contact then received another request, this time from a 22 year old, same area - think you all know what I am going to write next. Yes among his pics was the same one with his mate. Guess they thought I may like two little toy boys instead of one. Ah the confidence of youth!

Another thing that amuses me is the 'male mid-life' crisis. So many guys between 45 and 55 are out there searching for a new mate - they are all looking for Ms Perfect - slim, attractive, intelligent, independently wealthy (dad owns a brewery) - yet these guys are far from perfect themselves. They are often very overweight, no oil paintings and in their profiles have stated that they cannot find Ms Perfect despite being on the dating site for a few years.

Guess what guys? Ms Perfect is out with Mr Right and unless you have some hidden talent or a multi million dollar bank account she isn't going to come calling.

I updated my photos and profile to see if I would get any more hits (preferably in the right age group and state); my profile now is full of witty and stimulating entries; I have even emphasised the fact that I am a BBW and hinted that BBWs have more fun and are more intelligent and sensual.....lol. I have given the impression that those prospective partners are missing out on life by not contacting a BBW - just have to hope I am the only one on the site.....lol.

Must be working because I have had a sudden spurt of requests for contacts - 6 under 30s, 2 under 40, 7 from interstate, one from England and wait for it - yes 4 from nearby!

Of the nearby ones - chatted to one for a short while but when he asked me a) how much did I weigh, b) did I have a large stomach that was unattractive when naked and c) did I enjoy alternative sexual positions I decided to block his contact at that point, then sat and laughed for about ten minutes with tears rolling down my face. So that left 3. One is only 40 and I think maybe looking for 'mature lady' sex. One is away until after christmas so will have to wait to continue talking and the third seems nice and will hopefully be chatting with him later today.

So off I go heading into the new year with a new photo and new profile. So keep your fantasies alive and well by tuning in and living vicariously through this blog.

Ideas and suggestions accepted and all will be carefully considered.